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In general, married men arise emotions that cause a lot of adrenaline by being clandestine, full of secrets and much sexual fantasy, so it is easy for many to fall. Because that way they break the routine. But usually these stories have a bad ending and many suffer along the way.
What are the psychological reasons why a woman decides to date a married man?
Here they are.
1. Low self-esteem.
Women who have been abused in childhood, especially by their mother, and have been criticized severely because of their physical characteristics, or have been seen as dumb and unworthy of good things, learn to remain little.
They look for bad relationships from friends, work, and other aspects of their lives, but they especially choose married men to continue punishing themselves as adults did during their childhood.
That is why they must learn to find true pain, to forgive the past and thus to give themselves a place of real affection.
2. Sexual abuse.
This is one of the many sequels left by child sexual abuse. Especially if it is by incest of the father.
By having a married man, it is a way to keep abuse as a self-punishment.
The shame and guilt of abuse prevent her from being with a free man. Only with psychological help, she can get out of this trauma.
3. Inferiority complex.
Some women do so because they have a strong inferiority complex, due to childhood traumas.
They believe that by having a clandestine relationship and maintaining the lies they can reap benefits of the married lover, such as giving them more pampering and giving them special gifts in order to keep the secret and not betray the relationship with the wife and children.
In this way, they seem to feel strong and win the wife an emotional battle.
4. Loss of the father.
They have lost their father through divorce, death, abandonment, violence or addiction, try to compensate their pain with a man who already has family and children, and makes the relationship of the married man as if she were herself One daughter more.
They make a sex exchange for paternal affection.
5. Difficulty in socializing and making new relationships.
They have been very spoiled and have had everything, especially those who have grown up without limits, did not learn to resolve conflicts; Therefore they do not know how to have good interpersonal relationships.
Then when a married conqueror appears, they fall into the relationship so that they do not have to do much.
They adapt and let themselves be loved, regardless of social or moral.
They feel dazzled to see their friends or other women nearby who tell her how wonderful they spend it with lovers, travel, eat in nice places, have expensive gifts, in some cases car and apartment and many other benefits.
They try to do the same to enjoy that magical life that they are told.
7. Comfort in the couple relationship.
Some women bring a lot of tiredness from previous bad relationships, where they had to work a lot physically for the man like to serve him, to iron, to cook, to take care of them in excess and were not valued.
They separate from that relationship and then prefer to make a new one with little commitment.
Let it be just to enjoy sex and a good time, and not repeating the sad story of serving.
So a married man fits very well with her new aspirations.
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Nice informative video but I still will never understand why women have affairs with married men. Especially the women who know full well the man is married with children and continues the affair not caring at all about what this might do to the wife and children. They are selfish and in my opinion total and utter scum.
Why I'm I here 🙄 coz I have someone's husband hitting on me and promising me the world he's still young but has a good job actually a great job takes care of the wife really well but he really wants to be with me too when we go out for lunch or dinner he treats me like a queen but I just decided I won't do it just because I'm a woman and I know how it feels to be lied to with someone you love its a shame though coz we connect very well in another life I feel like he would have been my go to guy its so sad but I have to block him 🙄🙄😪😪
A lot of the problem is they got too many soul ties and they're nothing but a fragmented personality . Most of these women don't even know who they are so they're searching for an identity in a relationship. Seems like the only pleasure they can get out of life is sexual they don't really know a love-making is it's all just sex to them. And then there's the fact that they want to be worshipped because they never got any attention in their childhood like they should have.
I cheated once while married with a married woman because her husband was cheating on her and she wanted to get even with him and my wife was denied in me of having sex with her so I did what I did what I did I know it wasn't right but I did and she end up having my child and since then I have not done it no more because guilt got the best of me cheating is not for me not after my fist encounter
because she wants to have an affair and cheat her boyfriend or husband. married men won't cause any problems because he will not reveal any secret to her husband and boyfriend. because he himself is at risk. married man are best to have affairs
Oh *please...* Many of these type of women who'd *do that* have BIG ass MOUTHS themselves, putting these men at danger, *even threatening them* to their wives with the info....
It's actually only *mostly* kept a "secret" *only* if they're *married too,* because both parties have equal things *to lose..* pfft.
ummmm.....????? what does that have to do with anything? So just because the girlfriend is happy and the wife is miserable that makes it okay? Let me guess you have either been or are currently the other woman.....am I right? people like that make me sick.
from someone who has actually studied psychology, the reason is usually because they want to prove to themselves that a man would risk his entire wellbeing just to be with her. Technically, it stems from sociopathic narcissism.
In other words, those specific women who do it, are n e v e r satisfied. Therefore, they are going to do it, no matter what. They are never satisfied with their husbands or boyfriends. And the same is gonna happen again with her new lover ... dissatisfaction, new chapter.
nofy bn.....Well that's where the married man needs to tell her he's married because a marry man has more to lose than the side chick does because if the side chick don't want you then your screw big time you screw up your marriage and then your side chick don't want you and she end up pregnant too now that's sad
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